A Letter to you......

(if you're losing your hair and need to choose a stylist)

Dear Amazing Woman,
I hope that you know already, after watching my welcome video, reading my story and checking out the blog section, that I am absolutely on your team. I get it. I may not know your story, but I feel you and where you are. This letter is about choosing a stylist to be on the journey with you. 

It's an important decision, so here goes:

After 20 years in the business of hair, I can honestly tell you that not every hairdresser is capable, patient, understanding or the slightest bit interested in your thinning hair.

SO, when you find someone who is gentle, compassionate, knowledgeable, talented and likes doing your hair, stick with that person.

Much of my skill set with thinning hair has come from my own long, personal journey with my own hair – first with challenging curly hair and then my changing texture to thinning hair.  Over the years, I’ve had my hair cut by many, many great hairdressers and most missed the mark. 

Most of those hairdressers approach my thinning hair as if it acted, operated and would look like most of the hair they work with: their normal to thick haired clients.
IT DOESN'T. MY HAIR IS NOT THAT HAIR. 

As a stylist with thinning hair, I can tell you that our hair is different and must be approached by stylists wearing finely tuned thinking caps. You're going to hear me say this from time to time, because it's important. A stylist dealing with thinning hair cannot be on auto-pilot. There is an art to cutting thinning hair, but that technically isn’t always what is important for you to be looking for. Do you know what I mean? There's more to it.

So, here are my tips for what you should look for in a stylist, if you have thinning hair. I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences with finding a hairdresser you love and who serves you well. 

  • Find someone who likes cutting thinning hair and tells you the truth about your thinning hair.
  • Select someone who listens to you and doesn’t think your trepidation is crazy or annoying.
  • Seek a stylist who helps you really understand what you can do with the hair you have on your head. It is not realistic to bring in pictures of models from magazines. It’s all about working with the hair on your head. Remember that it’s not always how much they cut off, but what they leave on the head.
  • Work with someone who talks you through the haircut and shows you what they are doing.
  • Find a stylist that uses tools that are gentle; uses combs that won’t rip your hair and brushes and hot tools that are gentle on your hair. We can’t afford to lose hair in the chair.
  • No tricky slicing or over-texturing – avoid this person at all costs.
  • Invest in someone who understands the thinning hair industry. It’s a big world out there. Your hairdresser should understand the WHY behind thinning hair products and which ones are the best for your hair.

Most importantly, your stylist should make you feel beautiful…because you are.

Love, Christine

 
 
Christine DiBenedetto